When in a dilemma, ask your mind 'What is the opportunity that can be created from such a situation that will benefit me?'. More often than not, the mind will answer this question and give an optimistic reading of the present situation. I have tried this technique and it is successful in the sense that it releases all the tensions pertaining to that problem. Now, in this phase of life, which is a very tricky one, I have got to take life-altering decisions. Some which may not be to my liking at first but may pay me much better in the longer run.
People say dream big because this will atleast help you reach some of the basic goals of life. The basic goals of having a shelter and enough food on the table. Most of them get disheartened on not reaching their goals in their specified time frame. This affects their lives and slowly they find that they are losing interest in every thing they used to love. The pressure of performing in every situation is so immense that we fail to acknowledge the beauty of the situation.We are also so determined to win that we forget to enjoy and savor the moment. When we lose out on the moment,we cry foul and blame destiny. This is because people fail to realize that they don't really like the thing that they are doing. Losing out a situation does not qualify anyone as a loser. A loser is one who fails to learn from his mistakes and starts to view life negatively. When a person takes failure as an opportunity to learn something. he comes out as a much stronger person since the situation exposed him to a part of himself that was unknown to him.
This brings us to the essence of life i.e. thinking beyond the horizons. When life presents you a bed of roses, you bask in all its glory. The same should apply for a situation where destiny shuts every door on your face. I feel the reaction to each situation must be with a calm demeanor. If life is handled in extremes, it is bound to give you fluctuations that your body would not be able to handle. A balanced mind and body are important for success in every sphere of life.
Marsha Sinetar once said :
People say dream big because this will atleast help you reach some of the basic goals of life. The basic goals of having a shelter and enough food on the table. Most of them get disheartened on not reaching their goals in their specified time frame. This affects their lives and slowly they find that they are losing interest in every thing they used to love. The pressure of performing in every situation is so immense that we fail to acknowledge the beauty of the situation.We are also so determined to win that we forget to enjoy and savor the moment. When we lose out on the moment,we cry foul and blame destiny. This is because people fail to realize that they don't really like the thing that they are doing. Losing out a situation does not qualify anyone as a loser. A loser is one who fails to learn from his mistakes and starts to view life negatively. When a person takes failure as an opportunity to learn something. he comes out as a much stronger person since the situation exposed him to a part of himself that was unknown to him.
This brings us to the essence of life i.e. thinking beyond the horizons. When life presents you a bed of roses, you bask in all its glory. The same should apply for a situation where destiny shuts every door on your face. I feel the reaction to each situation must be with a calm demeanor. If life is handled in extremes, it is bound to give you fluctuations that your body would not be able to handle. A balanced mind and body are important for success in every sphere of life.
Marsha Sinetar once said :
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